First of all grainy is good. Pixellated or DNRed is bad. One must know the difference to find out which of these is the real issue and then decide if too much of that thing is good or bad. There is nothing better than seeing pure film grain as originally intended by the director. When done right, grainy image gives outstanding filmic depth to an image which a smooth and sharp digital image cannot.
Now to answer your specific question, irrespective of rip or actual blu ray, It is my personal opinion that films are not the ideal source to get the maximum potential out of 4K OLEDs or LEDs. Films are never going to have entire frame most colorful or sharpest or brightest. In movies, the story telling style, mood and theme are considered more important than the potential the format of 4k can offer . Like you yourself mentioned Instead of movies, all the 4K HDR / Dolby vision demo videos/ documentaries all over the internet fulfil the purpose very well