What I see on this board is pretty healthy--lots of self-effacing commentary and honesty--and people who genuinely listen and work at things.
Personally, the 'phile label is fighting words -- I'm an experimenter and that's all. Sort of emperor's clothes fashion, it was pretty obvious listening to the highest of high-end even 30-some years ago that the imaging and space freaks were "winning" in steering product development (and that the music had been killed stone-dead). Still, humanity always finds its way back around to gear that delivers what makes us happy--we just don't trust our perceptions of it until we've exhausted all the other options.
IMO, people around here are pretty good, comparatively. Plus, you guys have to work so much harder to even care about it (availability/imports, duties, etc) at all. IMO, you all should be congratulated for this place and for the community and discourse that you've all created. Somehow, you've preserved tolerance, decency, and civility in a world in which all are being challenged.