Today I was speaking with my cousin, who is handles all DJ equipment and provides sound solution. We chatted long about these topics.
The thing with chest hitting bass is it is not below 60-80 hz. The music in pubs and remixes are tuned with such beats they feel chest thumping, that makes everyone groove. And the speakers are designed that way, if you play normal songs with deep bass or songs we test at home on the same speakers they don't sound that good something is a miss.
For music at home such chest hitting bass is not advisable, it might become fatiguing after sometime.
To show off the system it is a great experience, but to sit and listen for long hours and enjoy the music I doubt it can be a good experience.
Best option is to add a sub, if I want to feel the bass I do it always.
But again it depends on person to person.
Best is to audition which gives you satisfaction, following speakers are on top of my list.
1. IndiaqAudio Diamonds or Achals 3 Way.
2. Q Accoustics 3050i
3. PSB Alfa T20 though these are very small and easy on pocket, has got good reviews.
4. Polk RTi A9