The calibration process involves two steps (broadly speaking).
The first is to ensure that all the speakers output the 'same level of sound at the same time' when listening form the primary position. This is ensured by establishing the distance between each of the speakers and the primary listening position (ear level) + tweaking the speaker level for each speaker to ensure that the sound is heard at the same level at the primary position (can use a spl meter for this).
The second is to make adjustments to cater to the room acoustics. When you listen to a soundtrack in a perfect room (there is no room like that though
) with no reflections, then you would hear the sound exactly how the sound engineer intended you to. However, in the real world, there are tons of acoustic problems in a room. The reflections in a room causes the sound to deviate from their original measurements. These can be treated by using special acoustic products, but they can also be treated (to a limited extent though) by adjusting the eq.
I dont know if the Onkyo 3500 has audyssey, as audyssey measures more than one listening positions for calibrating the system. However, even audyssey calculates the distance and levels for the speakers, based on the 'primary listening position', so you can do that manually. Its only the Dynamic EQ that is modified based on the other listening positions, thus limiting the impact of the acoustic problems in a room.
But are the surrounds placed wide enough so that when you move the front speakers wider (one on PC table, other near the window), the surrounds would still be wider, or atleast in line, with the fronts?
Yeah....its really the second best part (best being listening to the actual system
) of owing a HT setup.