@ Sid :
1. A preamp can provide you additional GAIN that a passive cannot. And just in case, the impedances between your source and power aren't very favorable, an active Preamp comes to rescue where the passive is helpless.
Nevertheless, an Active Preamp will have the additional Gain stage using power-supplies hence WILL NOT be as silent as the Passive that's powerless! The passive without any circuits will also be a lot cleaner sounding without being clinical.
However, Transformer based Passive by Promitheus is offering a 6dB Gain but am NOT sure as how he's managing that.
2. No, only 1 passive pre will drive both channels using one 909 or even 2 x 909 for (bi-amping or bridged mono-blocking).
3. Completely depends on the passive's design - whether its a simple L-pad that uses ONLY 2 resistors (1 fixed for shunt while the other is the variable for the switch) or is it a Transformer based design.
4. & 5. --
Will discuss over PM!
As far as your concern regarding tampering of the circuit and its life, the 'serious people' who uses the 606/606-II/707/909 in their daily lives have modded their units and I have YET to come across a soul who claimed his amp being damaged. It actually betters the amp by a HUGE margin! So big is the improvement, that you'll feel the Quad has grown up to the likes of a Krell/ML etc with that glorious midrange intact! The overall bandwidth just opens up from close to DC all the way to 70kHz.
Finally - the 909 itself is a fairly powerful amp with 140watts per ch into 8 ohms and 250watts per ch into 4 ohms. What speaker do you want to drive that mandates an even higher output amp or requires bridged mono of 909 to generate 300watts at 8 ohms, 500watts into 4 ohms?