toes or people ?BTW, who's going around biting peoples' toes, and where do we find them?
toes or people ?BTW, who's going around biting peoples' toes, and where do we find them?
I always used to explain to my patients, my not unique theory, anyone's ego would naturally make themselves the centre of the universe, so you end up with 4 generations accompanying the patient from the doddering great grandfather to the grandson crawling on the floor.While the aam aadmi has a mild problem and he goes for evaluation and management to one of these big facilities,
This is classic buyer's remorse often seen in surgical cases by bad decision making due to ego. Patients and their children, inspite of knowing the class and tier system in hospitals choose higher classes for surgical cases and then repent the costs later because they don't want to look cheap or poor in front of family and neighbours. The usual Indian "char log kya kahenge" syndromeMy dad incurred bills of 8 lakhs for cardeology and covid treatment in recent times and at 80 he feels the doctors robbed my entire career savings and began saying "Vinod, I dont want you to spend anymore on me". I said you are the reason for my very existance. He countered by saying I dont want the doctors to benefit because of heavy spenders like you!! I said i spent on a good cause but he feels some doctor who paid crores to pass MBBS and MD is recovering from peoole like me.
You will always be offered a menu of rooms and classes, in the end your choice. There is no argument, the class for surgery is decided between you and surgeon before admission who then gives you the admit note for the CMOI learnt one thing from your previous post. How to cut down on hospitalisation bills by choosing the general ward. They even would suggest to book private rooms for access to cleaner toilets and they polish that need for privacy in our minds. I havent tried arguing with them so far for a lesser costing general ward admission but for the covid treatment it was a covid ward for him - no choice there. The cardiology admission though was on a private AC room.
And this is the sad part of Indian society.Lets say renowned hospitals and big name doctors on one hand look in the prism of capitalism and a perpetual mindset of making profits "Vinod, I dont want you to spend anymore on me".....He countered by saying I dont want the doctors to benefit because of heavy spenders like you!!
I agree. I've heard many variations of the previous generations ruing the costs incurred for their treatment.And this is the sad part of Indian society.
Do I have a doozy of a story!!Don't treat me, leave me to my fate.
It's always - why did you have to spend so much on me? The NEXT time leave me to my fate.
<<Mumbai is the root cause for medical inflatiin. Other cities are trying to follow suit. Lets assume one makes 12 lakhs per annum with 10% savings at most in this day and age and has to pay 8 lakhs hospital bill, 7 years of his savings is gone>>You will always be offered a menu of rooms and classes, in the end your choice. <<This is where they automatically manipulate. I kearnt a lesson on being stubborn in such places>>
But 8L in a private AC room is dirt cheap for Mumbai
What people don't seem to understand is that the OT, staff team, resources, ICU is the same regardless of class of initial admission and that's the important part
It's only the one day prior to surgery and 3 days after ICU that counts for bragging rights, showing visitors the posh room and toilet and view from the window and comfort of the attendant
The patient is in no condition to enjoy the facilities and the question asked to Dr Panda is of no use as post major surgery and ICU patients don't dump due to lack of solid food, antibiotics, IV glucose etc
The only ones using the fancy loo are relatives who have travelled from far and have come to mark attendance and don't really care for the patient
Rather than privacy relatives should worry more about infection and prevent all visitors. I spend a bomb at every admission by taking all visitors directly to the fancy canteen to stuff them and send them back by saying no visitors on doctors orders
Interestingly a Jain lady, single room patient, used to get 15 to 20 visitors daily even in ICU. Her husband used to look at me pityingly and ask why no one visits my dad while he was busy bribing the guard to let his visitors in
I explained to him what cross infection is and how it can be fatal for open heart surgery patients. My mom and BIL met my dad once after surgery, plus daily only one visit by me or sister but never both. Stand away from the bed and not touch dad or the bed
Sadly on the day of discharge i met the Jain gentleman still outside the ICU because the wife had got infected and was in those days running up a bill of Rs 25K a day. Which will be as much as 1L today. Stupidity has no limits
This is just silly. It is not financially wise to leave your money sitting idle. It's important to have sufficient health insurance coverage and invest your money wisely to stay ahead of inflation. Remember, whoever isn't utilising their savings to make more money will part with it sooner rather than later.Lets assume one makes 12 lakhs per annum with 10% savings at most in this day and age and has to pay 8 lakhs hospital bill, 7 years of his savings is gone
I agree wholeheartedly. My opinion is that if one manages to save just 10% of one's income then it warrants a serious relook at multiple things related to income and expenses. If 25% of one's income is not put aside and invested to grow, one is in for a lot of heartache later in life. Fortunately for me, I was advised this early in life and most importantly, I followed it diligently. Worked wonders for me!This is just silly. It is not financially wise to leave your money sitting idle. It's important to have sufficient health insurance coverage and invest your money wisely to stay ahead of inflation. Remember, whoever isn't utilising their savings to make more money will part with it sooner rather than later.
Tips on how to cut medical costs have already been outlined in this thread.
What frankly this shows is bad financial management in that household. The parents never taught their children financial prudence at all.This is just silly. It is not financially wise to leave your money sitting idle. It's important to have sufficient health insurance coverage and invest your money wisely to stay ahead of inflation. Remember, whoever isn't utilising their savings to make more money will part with it sooner rather than later.
Tips on how to cut medical costs have already been outlined in this thread.
I was saying lets "assume". Its a scenario and is possible also. He maybe paying car and home loan emi, or on rents he could have his children participate in extra curricular activities and he invests in 80c with lock in(ppf, elss etc...), emis on consumer electronics, mutual fund SIPs, health and term insurance, property maintainance, his vacations etc... Not silly at all, and happens in 90% of the households where the one 8 lakhs of medical bill will be the thorn that stings him.This is just silly. It is not financially wise to leave your money sitting idle. It's important to have sufficient health insurance coverage and invest your money wisely to stay ahead of inflation. Remember, whoever isn't utilising their savings to make more money will part with it sooner rather than later.
Tips on how to cut medical costs have already been outlined in this thread.
What this frankly shows is the fictitious 12 LPA earning guy swearing at you doctors for your bills thats all. His curse will not be on his house owner or home loan emi company but on you guys in medical fraternity.What frankly this shows is bad financial management in that household. The parents never taught their children financial prudence at all.
If at 12L a year and the person has not met a CA, FM or MFA, has no knowledge or control over his earnings , savings and finances then it's a sad commentary on financial control in the house and over dependence on land and property as the only means of investment. No level of income will dig you out of a liquidity hole in an emergency
I'm just so glad that my parents taught us fiscal discipline right from school. We got pocket money of 50 paise a month, increased to Rs 5 in SSC, to Rs 50 in junior college to Rs 500 in degree where you manage all your faltu expenses in that.
Nothing like learning that daily discomfort of 2nd class local train student pass leaves enough money for movies, ice cream and other fun stuff instead of traveling in first class and no fun. The decision was left to us
The first thing my dad taught me was to open an account in a bank near college and deposit the pocket money there first, only then withdraw as needed. Over 4 years that built up to a nice 6.5K in savings which i used to buy watches for everyone at home as a graduation present as I had to close the account anyway.
Ah! Happy memories!
What this frankly shows is the fictitious 12 LPA earning guy swearing at you doctors for your bills thats all. His curse will not be on his house owner or hole loan emi company but on you guys in mefical fraternity.
Financial management includes the ELSS/PPF savings, his MF equity SIP or even a debt investment (or similar long run 8% cagr investments such as gold, bonds, real estates, debt MF, recurring deposits, NSC, SGB etc...) plus insurance he takes (which does not cover during wait period or supplies and dispensaries, co payments, deductibles and pre existing conditions and anyways leave a huge uncovered portion) etc... he cant aim to have the cake and eat it as well. Everybody cant be a Vijay Kedia.Maybe, we find people swearing at police, judges even bus conductors. But the problem is not the doctor but himself for having gone beyond his means/not having insurance as well as lack of good public medical services for those who cannot afford .
People love complaining and the internet is full of that. I guess in some roles one just needs to factor that and move on.
The bigger problem is no one is taught financial management but taught mathematics in school. My pet theory is is financial managment and Cooking are 2 things which must be taught in every school curriculum in 11th/12th
So you treating your relatives a bomb at cafe is a good lesson of financial management your parents taught you? Or carelessly saying 8lakhs is nothing in Mumbai these days? Ha ha! It boomerangs back at you right? Which side of the arguement are u in right now?What frankly this shows is bad financial management in that household. The parents never taught their children financial prudence at all.
If at 12L a year and the person has not met a CA, FM or MFA, has no knowledge or control over his earnings , savings and finances then it's a sad commentary on financial control in the house and over dependence on land and property as the only means of investment. No level of income will dig you out of a liquidity hole in an emergency
I'm just so glad that my parents taught us fiscal discipline right from school. We got pocket money of 50 paise a month, increased to Rs 5 in SSC, to Rs 50 in junior college to Rs 500 in degree where you manage all your faltu expenses in that.
Nothing like learning that daily discomfort of 2nd class local train student pass leaves enough money for movies, ice cream and other fun stuff instead of traveling in first class and no fun. The decision was left to us
The first thing my dad taught me was to open an account in a bank near college and deposit the pocket money there first, only then withdraw as needed. Over 4 years that built up to a nice 6.5K in savings which i used to buy watches for everyone at home as a graduation present as I had to close the account anyway.
Ah! Happy memories!
Swearing at police, judges, bus conductors are not going to be talked as much as Education and healthcare inflation as the former three are not everyday happenings to all, but the latter happens to each person. Insurance has been included in the 12lpa or else where those missing chunk of money is to be accounted. I gave this as an illustration only and to support the view point of medical inflation even scares a decently earning chap with health insurance.Maybe, we find people swearing at police, judges even bus conductors. But the problem is not the doctor but himself for having gone beyond his means/not having insurance as well as lack of good public medical services for those who cannot afford .
This question has always been hovering over for years. Most of the subjects in the school/junior college curriculam is not of much practical use.The bigger problem is no one is taught financial management but taught mathematics in school. My pet theory is is financial managment and Cooking are 2 things which must be taught in every school curriculum in 11th/12th
They can be taught financial management at the school, accounting for the ambiguity and paradox of having to teach the children how education becomes a hyper inflation later in their lives!This question has always been hovering over for years. Most of the subjects in the school/junior college curriculam is not of much practical use.
Along with financial management and cooking, having basic electrical, plumbing & carpentary workshops are so essential in practical life. But instead rote learning and scoring only high percentage/marks to secure higher admissions in most of the streams seem to be commonly encouraged maybe barring a miniscule few.