There are two diverging schools of thought in hifi world; one is the objectivist and the other is the subjectivist. I tend to balance between the two; but heavily lean on the subjectivism.
It depends on whether you are trying to simply reproduce what is recorded on the CD as accurately as possible, or if you are trying to replicate the live performance (as far as classical and jazz go, anyway).
FWIW, I fall 100% in the subjective camp. Solid states may measure really well, but they simply fail to convey the life of the music IMO. My theory is that the second-order distortion of single-ended tube amps restores some of the timbre and natural acoustics of the live performance in a way that solid state electronics simply dont. Barring perhaps hip-hop and electronica, pretty much every musical instrument and human vocals come alive with tubes. I had to wean myself off a lot of audiophile preconceptions before I was able to summon up the courage to sell off my Parasound & Snells - for this purpose, I had a lot of friends listen to music on both the rigs. Every single one of them preferred the tubes.
What gets my goat is the whole BS science in the audio world: silver cables improve the uppers, solid state gear needs to break in, $500 cables, blah-di-blah. THAT is definitely the realm of "you hear what you want to hear".
But a lot of people disagree, including someone who regularly had $250k+ worth of gear* in his house at any given time. I knew Jonathan Scull, the editor/contributor to Stereophile, and we used to always debate this. He staunchly believed in the benefits of cables, green pens on CDs, etc. and felt that tubes werent to be considered hi-fi b/c of their distortion. Technically, that may be true, but again, if something is high fidelity but sounds worse, do we care? His logic is that there is no common ground for discussion if we go the "my fi" way. Fair enough.
*There isnt a whole lot I wouldnt do to own a pair of Watt-Puppies. Listening to those babies, driven by ML/Krells as well as some other tube-based (although not single-ended) rig, was an experience I do not have the words to describe.