Wow... Such a lot of activity on this thread since I threw in my two pennies worth!
Just to nail my colours to the mast, and I should have been clearer before, when I say I am a classical music man, I mean that I am a
carnatic classical man. Over my life, my taste has ranged from some of the 30s/40s ballads in my parents' collection of 78s, through western classical, some of the psychadelic and "progressive" music of the 60s and 70s (I had a Greatful Dead session at the weekend!), Indian music in general, finally settling in this carnatic sphere.
I'm no scholar, though, and unable to recognise raga, though I understand the skeleton of tala, having sat through (but not memorised) more than a few mridangam classes.
I'd say that melody is the bit that gets left in a person's head; it is the bit that you hum. When it comes to my favourite music, however, my lack of raga education means that, even when I can hear a snippet in my head, I often
cannot hum it, as the raga brain-cell links are not there. This even applies to songs I might be able to hum along with. I have a theory that, if you take the tunes a person knows out of their head, a remarkable proportion of them will be composed by Mozart and Beethoven, whether the person has even heard of them or not! Yes, of course, British westerners were the subject of this theory; it may very well not apply.
My symphony-orchestra test was analogous to playing music through a very fine hifi system: it is unforgiving. That which sounded fine to on a cheap tape deck may be just horrible on a decent hifi. It shows up the warts as much as anything else. Of course, the musicians, and the strength of the arranger, was an unknown quantity.
In the end, it is subjective. As someone said, personal. The test of time (and many greats get forgotten too) is yet to happen, and we will never know.
By the way... just been upacking some forgotten CDs, and we listened to and enjoyed the music to 1947
Oh... somebody, somewhere in all those pages, mentioned repetitive drumming. I think that anyone who has ever listened to the vast variety of mridangam strokes in carnatic music will tend to find mere repetition (and worse; the drum machine loop) on the drums to be less than satisfying!
(and, should anyone notice a fair-haired Brit wearing traditional Indian dress, in a Chennai concert hall, there is a very good chance it is me. Say hello!)