It is a given that your room (and hopefully it is not your speakers) are "aren't manipulating what the sound engineer recorded"
The measurement is rather easy - free software (REW) and USB mic.
The sound engineer does not have to release a frequency graph, if you want to visualize the audio there are tools.
The problem with ears and eyes are they are not trustworthy and will adapt. Not reliable. If the goal with all the spend on eqpt, high res formats and treatment is to reproduce sound that is close to the original, laying on the treatments without measurement IS going to be counterproductive. I certainly do not have the training or a "super ear" to get by , earing it. What I did by way of treatment or placement - before measurement - was pure crap and I have had to redo some of it. An mm or two matters by the way - and once you know what you are listening for even with out "the training or a "super ear" I spoke about, I can make out that something has been changed - I might not be able to tell you what though
If you want to be all combative and touchy about it, I am okay with not continuing this. I am not pretending to be an expert or claiming to have PhD in acoustic physics or anything in case you are riled about that missing disclaimer. It is just that the topic interests me.
"Getting Your Room to Sound Great" I guess is about purpose building/ reshaping a room for good acoustics, that is not my path, I am doing something else, treatment / correction to live with a perfectly horrid room for audio and still have good sound. To the ear and to the mic.
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