Going back to first post... when you say only down to 60Hz, is this based on the specifications for the speakers, on listening tests to music, or listening tests to test tones?
If the speakers just don't go that low, then that is a fact that has to be lived with and tweaks are a waste of time and money when you could be spending on setting up your sub.
On the other hand, if there is more bass there, but you are just not getting it, then some room treatment might help. I'd love to have a room I could treat, I'm sure it is a fascinating project and could be more rewarding than audio hardware upgrades, but, for now, I can only read about it!
One thing I learnt only recently, is that bass traps, despite the name, do not reduce bass, they
increase it! Interesting stuff!
Apart from that, I suspect that you are quite right in your need for the sub. And, for real music, I guess it has to be a good one.
I guess there is a difference between boom-boom that is good enough for HT, and bass that is good for hifi music. I thought I'd follow this thread to learn more about subwoofers in the hifi context