Hi everyone
My 2p on speaker placement. Just sharing what has worked for me:
1. The first and most important step is being clear about what sound characteristics one prefers. Attend as many live shows and listen to other FM setups. Travel - audition dealer demos of high-end gear. You'll be surprised how terrible some high end systems sound to you. Don't go by reviews in audio magazines but listen to reviews from friends whose ears you trust. Go by what gets the foot tapping, what elevates the mood, what characteristics of the sound stand out to you. Personally, I pay attention to hearing the sound of the strike on the skin on percussion instruments, bass that is driving without overshadowing other instruments, a forward midrange, attacking transients and the ring on high notes.
2. Start with any of the methods that suit your room layout and PAF (let's be gender neutral here, P is for Partner), be it 1/3, 1/5, quarterwave, Cardas or some other. They are all fair starting points. From the start position, move the speakers forward 10 cms, listen, then back 10cms and listen again. Which movement is bringing forth more of the characteristics listed in 1 above? As mentioned by Prem, pay particular attention to bass override. This can particularly affect how clearly we hear mid range and vocals. At this stage, keep the room conditions constant (don't change furniture position, curtains, listening position, volume). Next, move further in the direction (forward or back) in which the sound characteristics improved at 10 cms. At one point, generally not exceeding 25 cms from the starting point, the sound will start deteriorating. At that stage one needs to reverse direction, now 5 cms at a time, listening for those vital characteristics. A few iterations back and forth will be necessary to arrive at the ideal location. When you find the best spot in this manner, move back and forth 2cms, and then 1cm, until you hear the music 'click in' as FM Arj described. A bit of lateral movement and toe-in may also be necessary to achieve better imaging and a cohesive sound, but this is easier than the placement wrt the front wall. Any movement away from this spot will take the live energy away from the sound.
3. Listen to your favorite music in this position for at least a week. Try multiple genres, multiple sources. After a week, given the time and inclination, one can move to the next step: Mark the current position and adopt a different method, e.g. if you first chose Cardas, move to the 1/3 method. Repeat the above steps with the new method and find the second ideal spot. Listen for a week. Then a third method to find a third ideal spot. We now have 3 or 4 ideal spots to select from, each determined by a different principle. Select the best and keep a note of the other positions selected. One can now experiment with room tweaks and room treatment if desired
4. Be open to suggestions from others but don't be a football of their opinions. Enjoy the music. Forget about speaker placement
Cheers!