My perspective is that Both of you ie
@Passive_audio_enthusiast and
@Yelamanchili manohar are right in your own ways. I could perhaps relate it to a hobby now dormant ie Photography.
While listening to what the recording engineer has decided is inescapable ie thats what you would listen to if you go by being true to the recording. It is a Photograph of the music given to you
There is also the fact that in the end you are listening to music and you want to move away from a "Photograph" to a "Painting" which is an interpretation of the music within your ow room which you can choose to personalize by making it play to your emotion. Depending on your objectives the photograph and painting are both right
While the two approaches are inescapable , the difference between the the 2 above and the various points in between that differentiates the differences in each one of us on how we listen.
In the end listening to music is an art rather than a science , perhaps the same as making and drinking wine and ones own tastes, history, emotion etc are going to be different