Hi sudhishkv,
Sorry to hear about your bitter exp with eBay India... I recently got my iPhone flicked in the Delhi Metro and my heart goes out to you...
Anyways coming to the point.... I don't have any exp of buying selling on eBay.in but have plenty of exp on ebay.com and I believe both work the same...
Some pointers and advice...and some best practices I follow that has kept me safe...
1.) Always bid on someone with 98-100% feedback, go and read his feedback, at times go and even contact another buyer who has given a positive feedback to your seller. Ask him about the genuineness of the item, delivery, seller behavior etc...
- Always buy items in which the seller has taken some personal pics and uploaded and not used stock images... at times if his user ID and date of posting AD is mentioned in the Photo that adds to the credibility of the seller.
2.) Always use Paisa Pay to pay, which i am sure you did.
3.) Always do messaging from ebay ID only, never start emailing or replying to the seller's emails which land directly to your inbox... This way, (may be) eBay has access to your eBay inbox or else you can always show a screenshot to prove the emails are genuine and more importantly the seller can never fabricate a mail coming from your eMail ID and showing that your consent for something which you never gave.
4.) Try and buy items with "Returns accepted"... before accepting the package, negotiate with the courier guy and try and open the box and check the item in his presence... if its not what you ordered or differs from the description or its simply a packet of rusted nails instead of a shiny iphone4 just DONT sign the package... even more... take the courier guy's ID and follow up with his company, get acknowledge that you "returned the item to sender" and never signed for it... and make sure it gets returned back... Pay for the return shipping if you have to and keep a receipt for that... That way you have proof you sent it back...
5.) In any case if you need to raise a dispute, go to Paisa Pay and raise a DISPUTE as soon as Delivery period gets over... then Paisa Pay will block your money and won't release it to the seller until it gets resolved... There after do all your communication on PayPal messaging... this helps PaisaPay as they can read messages from both the parties and figure out who is genuine..
In your case, its super fraud happening, to an extent has he has threatened to submit your FAKE profiles and receipts to ebay... Dont get bothered by them...
You pursue your case with eBay and ensure you get your acknowledge of no receipt from Courier company as your counter proof. Don't accept any communication from Seller on phone... that's pure harassment....keep everything on messaging thru Paisa Pay... thats traceable.
Some more info here...
Buying "nothing" on eBay: Detecting eBay auction scams, Daniel Frank Sedwick, LLC.
Help With Possible PayPal/eBay scam
Does Paypal usually side with buyers for non-delivery claim and give them refund from the seller's account?
I really hope your money comes back to your account and a good lesson learnt!