There is only one way to get music to sound the way it was originally recorded.
There is a huge difference between how music originally sounded and how it was originally recorded. The only way you can listen to music without any change is to listen to it without any electronics. I know of a few musicians in India who insist on having no amplification when they are singing. We do this quite often in our club, but that can only be done for a small group.
Believe me, that sound is completely different. Just close you eyes and sit on a roof one day and pay attention to what you are hearing. You will get multiple sounds, coming from multiple directions, and from multiple 3 dimensional depths. We actually hear the best sound system in the world second minute we are awake, but never pay attention to that.
Remember Diwali? The sound effects of small crackers and the depth at which they sound can never be recreated by any sub. The distance between you and the explosion is so measurable in real life. A 2-dimensional speaker system can never recreate that. What manufacturers claim of 3D sound are all illusions using varying amplitude to create the image of distance.
I clearly remember a musical group walking though my street one day. The drums sounded so different from what we spend lakhs of rupees trying to recreate in our homes.
The minute sound is recorded and stored, it has changed. You can never recreate the original sound. Yes, as you said, what we are all fighting over is to bring what we hear as close to what is recorded. But, hey! Who knows what was recorded?
As long we get clear sound, with decent depth, no jitter, no noise, and enough gain, we should be happy. That can be delivered with a $250 DAC connected to a $1000 system as we all a $2500 DAC connected to a $10,000 system. As I said before, the difference between these systems can never be more than 10%, assuming the first system does work well. Anything else you hear has placebo effects. Keep one thing in mind, a 1dB increase in sound would sound better on the same system. That is how human ears work. As I said before, many times companies use this simple logic to fool you.
If you read reviews carefully, beyond a certain price range, reviewers are finding it difficult to justify a higher spend. 'I am not saying x is bad. All I am saying is that Y has more of 'that there''. It a just a play of words to justify a product. If this can happen to experienced reviewers, you and I can be fooled easily.
At the end of the day, fix your budget and get the best system you can for that price. Stop chasing un-attainable systems. If I had 100,000$, I would certainly find better uses for that than trying to get a more resolving system and not enjoy the music and system I already have.
Cheers